Stop feeling powerless and take charge of your own life
I can’t go on living. Not one more day. Not like this. This is what kept running through my mind as I lay on my back on my bed. I had just come back from work that day. It had been a busy day. But that was not the reason why I was tired. What …
The Real Reason why you Never get the Respect and Appreciation You Want Read More »
Have you ever wondered if there’s something broken inside of you? Something that stops you from asking for what you need or want? Something that stops you from holding eye contact with others? Something that stops you from speaking up when you need to? If you feel like that then you’re not alone. I used …
Is There Something Broken Inside you That Stops you From Speaking Your Mind? Read More »
Do I keep on nursing grudges and resentment? Or do I let it all go and blow the relationship apart into bits? This is the worst dilemma that troubles approval addicts. But do you know what’s funny about this? There’s no dilemma at all. Because these are not the only choices. There is a third …
The Real Reason why you Keep Living with Resentment Every Day Read More »
It’s not your fault. You know you’re struggling with approval addiction. You know how it’s keeping you anxious, helpless, and alone. You want to get rid of it once and for all. But there’s a catch. Now maybe you have been reading a lot on the interwebz on this topic. Maybe you have also read …
Why Most People Will Never get rid of Their Approval Addiction Read More »
“I’m sold, Subhajit” – you say. I’ve had it with this approval addiction. I know I’m struggling with it. I know the damage it’s doing to me. And I want to banish it forever from my life. I’ve seen the case studies that you posted earlier and I want similar results. But how do I …
I wake up at 4.45 am – excitement bubbling within me. Today I get to work on what I love doing. Just like every other day. I’ll apply what I learned yesterday and add some brand graphics to my site. Oh, it’s Saturday. Another of my article goes out today. Most of the work is …
12 Years a Software Dev – How it Prepped Me to Help You Reinvent your Life Read More »
Some people seem to have a magic touch… You meet them, and before you know it, you’ve hit it off with them. Interactions with them are satisfactory beyond words – almost cathartic. You feel that they are listening to you; that they can see you. But that’s not all… They seem to have a bounty …
7 Remarkable Traits that Help Emotionally Mature People Conquer all Odds Read More »
Admit it. You’re jealous. You see some people handle uncomfortable conversations like a pro. They seem to have some magic touch – that you don’t. It’s almost like a Teflon coating; nothing ever sticks on them. They come out unscathed, no matter how tough the conversation gets. You want to be like them. After all, …
How to Get Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations like a Badass Read More »
Another year passes by with no progress on your career goals. No remarkable assignments, no recognitions, no promotion. Nil. Nada. You feel unnoticed and invisible at work. You wander about the cubicle bays like a mouse scurrying amongst the nooks and crannies in a maze – hoping, praying even, for someone from “those cubicles” to …
Why Your Career Is Going Nowhere (and What to Do About It) Read More »
A hurricane raged through my mind. I waited in a sparsely crowded Pune airport at 3.20 am. The departure was still one hour away. I had bought the penultimate ticket for this flight, at a premium, that afternoon. Like a river with violent undertow, I appeared, by all means, calm and composed. But inside, I …
How to Defy What You Can’t Control (Even If You Feel Overwhelmed) Read More »